Have we not seen these "discussions" in other leagues? Have any of these "discussions" accomplished anything? I mean besides pissing people off and making them feel like a jerk.
Even if we rely on self policing, I still have extra work coming up with sanctions and implementing them. Even if losing one's team is 3rd or 4th violation stuff, I don't want to go down that road.
Please don't think this has anything to do with recently losing my mother. I was losing interest in MFN when she was still alive mainly because of these types of "discussions". They all start and end the same way. You'll have 2 sides, in this case the "it's part of the game" and "it's cheating". Whichever side the poster is on, they will vigorously defend their position in attempt to "correct" the thinking of the other side. Those on that "other side" think they are correct and fire back, attempting to "correct" the OP's thinking.
This devolves into personal attacks, hurt feelings and open teams. Oh, and neither side has succeeded in converting anyone. Then when the dust settles, I have to recruit those open teams and wait for the next "discussion". No thanks.
Anyone willing can take my job and handle this different if you wish, just say the word. I rdgaf anymore.